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[Playbahnosh]

Originally posted by rofl+Jun 26 2005, 05:02 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (rofl @ Jun 26 2005, 05:02 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-Playbahnosh@Jun 25 2005, 11:57 PM
Ugh these metric systems
Anyway, I weight 100 Kgs now (+-2), and I am happy as I am. I'm not *fat* but I'm not like the showroom guys all around. I don't want to be a babe-magnet, I only want to find that one who I really like.

Well, I know that you think being just understanding and kind and loving is all that matters. But don't think that possessing good qualitites without looking good will give you good chances to find a girl that will fall in love with you. It can never hurt to look good. If you meet some girl on the street, the first thing measured is your look. No one can read your thoughts and know that you're a great guy, that comes later, but first of all your look comes into attention. And if you smile, then you already look better. But if you want a good meant advise, actually two:
1. Do some sport, become thinner. Do something to look better. Also smile, and the world will smile to you. Really.
2. Leave this girl, being a cool guy like you seem to be you will be able to find someone who will like you more than her and probably fit better to you, too. Believe me, your time will come, too. No need to waste your time with her. [/b][/quote]
Aaaherrghhh! That hurts!

First of all, I AM doing sports. I play soccer and basketball every now and then, but I posted that earlier. I LOST a huge amount of weight already, and I posted that too! Read dude, read!

The thing is that you are right in some point. The looks is the most importand thing for girls if they see you for the first time. They don't get down and think, how friendly, caring and lovable you are, they first check out how do you LOOK. And if they are not pleased with the results, they won't even think about getting to know you better. Or not for a relationship that is, you can be still friends. Yeah, right... <_<
I"m not denying myself, If I see a girl the first time, I check her out first. If she looks OK, than I'll try to get to know her better. For relationship that is. I have female friends too, and they are all great talking partners and true friends, even if some of them is not that model look. So I'm not discriminating anybody. I think everyone should get a chance k: