If you are not married and have a crush on somebody (doesn't have to be a member) you can describe them and your situation on this topic, and everybody can give advice and comments. No flaming or spamming please, this topic has the potential to get touchy. :cheers:

Nice try..but wouldn't dare, you never know she might be a member :bye:

well yo're ananimous, right? so as long as she doesn't know it's you, what diffrence does it make?

But I4 still won't read my story.

i likem smart, very smart. ^_^ :wub: ^_^ :drool:
she dosent need to know the encyclopedia.
i doubt anyone here will understand what i mean by that.

Well, I just made this topic cause I thought maybe, just maybe, it can get as popular as "what do you imagine everyone else to look like"

You think its too touchy? I kinda meant this topic to be like an anonymous "romance counselor" forum.

You, and the person you have a crush on, are utterly anonymous. Lets say you have the most hugest crush on this beautiful girl. But she treats you like dirt. Everybody else can give you advice on how to win her heart. :D

Does that clarify things?

-Opening up-

Like this?
As there's this girl, she's very cute, and I really like her.
But me with my bloody shyness, I have trouble even talking to her.
So currently I'm trying to gather the courage to ask her out...
:wub:

Don't really mind if she's a forum member (which I pretty much know she isn't, by the way), it might make things easier...

So if you read this, girl... :max:
LOL

I have that problem too. I feel like a bit lout every time I show my face in front of her. I can't even say"good morning." can't offer you any advice, man, or wouldn't have these problems :D

My main problem is that I can't be bothered to get a girlfriend, some bits would be alright but all that dating and buying presents seems too much like hard work.

dont bother its all just pain in teh end

Sigh

I used to get instant crushes on women who were both smart and dominant...

Then I found out I couldn't stand them and we would have big fights etc and I found out the only reason I fell for them was because my mother is both smart and dominant. So it's sorta conditioned into my system I guess. Freud-people, eat your heart out!

So now when I meet a woman with a strong character I use my rationale and not give in to temptation... Because they are bad women to me! Unfortunately I have no eyes for the friendly females... I mean, I look at them and chat with them but they don't get my inner fires going...

Sigh :wall: