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[Playbahnosh]

Originally posted by gufu1992@Feb 12 2006, 11:04 PM
what if you wake up with strange felling?(No not to throw up

what do you mean exactly?

[LeD]

Love is whenever you holler and cuss at your spouse and no matter how extreme it is, They will tolerate it and not leave you

[rlbell]

Originally posted by LeD@Feb 13 2006, 02:22 AM
Love is whenever you holler and cuss at your spouse and no matter how extreme it is, They will tolerate it and not leave you

No, love is when you will do anything that the other person will ask, while trusting that other person to never demand what you cannot give. Love is when the two of you feel like one person in two bodies. Each is incomplete without the other

Okay, my problem is that loving my wife is as natural as breathing and is as obvious to me as water is to fish. That being said, I can offer some useful advice; although, it is mostly applicable to men:

For long term success, you have to share your partner's values. This means that you should date people who are nearly as neat (or messy) as you are, or housekeeping will be a major source of tension. Food likes and dislikes are less important. A friend of mine suffers from the fact that her husband's eyes water in the presence of food as spicy as she prefers, but they are still happy. Athiests should stay away of truly religious people. Religious differences are less important than the level of religious conviction. There is no compelling reason for two people of different religions marrying if the religious practices are not mutually exclusive. However, the outlook of deeply religious people and athiests are mutually exclusive.

Women do not date their friends. If the woman is available, all of her previous relationships broke up and she is likely not on speaking terms with any of her previous boyfriends, so dating you means losing you as a friend forever, at some future time (told to me by a woman that I deeply loved, as a reason for her not dating me, but it may still be true in the general case). So you should ask the woman out, and then get to know her. If you are lucky, if things turn out badly, things have not progressed to the point where you cannot remain friends; otherwise, you have not lost an old friend.

Personally, I would never have sex with someone that I would not marry. I still think that it is useful advice, as no form of birth control is perfect. Also on a personal note, the point of dating is to find that special someone to raise children with. If you do not intend to raise children, you should stay away from people who do.

[Puffin]

Women don't date their friends?
But do men date their friends?

You really can't assume that this goes over everybody. I'm a woman, and I've dated friends, and it didnt' change anything afterwards.

And religions and level of conviction don't really have to be a problem, if both of them are open minded I'm an atheist, but have never dated one. I've even dated a fairly religious guy. As long as people respect each other's believes and thoughts, it shouldn't be a problem.

[PrejudiceSucks]

Yeah, that's my point of view too.

I think that you know when you're in love with someone when it feels like they're part of your everyday life, rather than something seperate.

[gufu1992]

Man we're going off-topic!

[Playbahnosh]

Originally posted by gufu1992@Feb 13 2006, 09:49 PM
Man we're going off-topic!

what's the topic then dude?

[gufu1992]

About a kid asking when you know when you in love!!!

[Playbahnosh]

Originally posted by gufu1992@Feb 13 2006, 11:31 PM
About a kid asking when you know when you in love!!!

Oh really? Jeez, don't say!

No seriously, we are trying to do just that, don't worry dude k: Love is different for everybody there are similar things in each so try to gather what knowledge we flowed in here for ya k: Have questions? Ask away!

[gufu1992]

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