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[red_avatar]

Well if there's one thing I learned it's this: a girl can throw a relationship on the cliffs for the tiniest of things. I had two relationships that ended because of some really stupidly small thing. It really makes you worried that anything you might say might get wrongly interpreted.

I think the reason for that is, that they bottle up so much inside. I've seen this with nearly every girl I've gone out with. They don't express their problems enough but rather dwell on them and then throw them in your face when you least expect it and when you can't defend yourself. The way she responded to your joke, it seems like it was linked to something that's been bothering her for a long time and it set off something that made her react unexpectedly.

Well on the plus side, the more mature girls get, the less they pull stunts like that on you. They learn to deal with problems and emotions and learn to talk it over with you instead of holding it all back. Being open is THE most important part of a relationship.

[Scatty]

Originally Posted by red_avatar

Being open is THE most important part of a relationship.

I couldn't agree there more.

I also must say, you're a kind-hearted person, Play, but you shouldn't take this girl as the pinnacle of being-in-love experience. The thing is, some people simply fit better together than others, and there are many, many girls out there that are all different. I'm sure, no I know for sure that you will yet meet the one girl that will fit better to you than Gabi (was that her name?).
Of course you feel sad now, and the sting in the heart after this is well-understood, but it is also impressive that you didn't simply give up and sink into despair, like some people do, and doing nothing, but instead are continuing with life and studying. That shows some inner strength.
Trust me, with her gone nothing is over yet, and you'll find another girl soon enough, after which you'll notice that the past with Gabi is gone with ease.

[Blood-Pigggy]

Holy ass, this is like 500 years old.

[Playbahnosh]

You don't say...

Anyway, I'm alone for two years now, and that made me somewhat dull, like my heart turned to stone or something. I think I'm gonna whine some more about how miserable my life is. That's what I do here most often anyway

[gregor]

well if you payed attention you would see that something is wrong and you are supposed to ask her what is wrong and demand the explanation before she manages to bottle it up. it always works if oyu blame her for not being open as in "i thought we agreed we will be honest to eachother. i was honest to you so far so why are you hiding somehting from me?"

it's called being sympathetic and empathetic. or something but oyu should "read their mind" and decode that you did something wrong.

[Blood-Pigggy]

Wow Gregor, you sound like a goon or something, when the hell did GBS migrate from SA all of a sudden?

[Morrin]

Originally Posted by Playbahnosh

You don't say...

Anyway, I'm alone for two years now, and that made me somewhat dull, like my heart turned to stone or something. I think I'm gonna whine some more about how miserable my life is. That's what I do here most often anyway

Your life is as miserable as you make it man.
Im 24 years old and I have never been in solid relationship. Kind of figures that Im here, heh.
I hate to be hostile here, but fuck1ng stop that whining! When you stop swimming in your tears, the life starts going on again. I know it's hard for the time being, but you have to carry on.

Have some god damn guts. Get drunk, break your apartment, just do whatever that makes you rise from your ashes and start again.

It's never too late

to start again.

[Pietafon]

Originally Posted by Morrin

Your life is as miserable as you make it man.
Im 24 years old and I have never been in solid relationship. Kind of figures that Im here, heh.
I hate to be hostile here, but fuck1ng stop that whining! When you stop swimming in your tears, the life starts going on again. I know it's hard for the time being, but you have to carry on.

Have some god damn guts. Get drunk, break your apartment, just do whatever that makes you rise from your ashes and start again.

It's never too late

to start again.

Damn right!

Playbahnosh, stop worry man! Life goes on! You'll see - You will find Your second half sooner or later.

[Playbahnosh]

Sure, positive thinking huh?

Well, guess what, I just got fired from the university because of some f***ing filter. I have no work, no friends around here and no future. And believe me, I'm not swimming in my tears, I friggin feel nothing. I'm doomed. Yeah, I know, I fu...messed it up, and there is nobody to blame but me, I know. And that makes it even worse. And yea, I'll stop whining now.

[Pietafon]

Hey, I'm know what You're talking about... When I was in Your age I've also get expelled from two good schools (fire department schools). My life then was also collapsed (in meantime my girlfriend dumpt me ) No future - no ideas for life... And that for almost two years... :/ But in meantime I've met a fantastic girl... She turns my life upside down! I've moved from my family to her... Now I'm have good job and I'm looking for my future in bright colours So don't worry man, You'll see - things will go better!!