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[Grinder]

Originally posted by Playbahnosh@Feb 4 2006, 07:27 PM
I think honesty is the biggest good thing...

Amen to that. But are you sure you want him to know that? As much as you love Gabi, you have to think of him, as well. Maybe he really really loves her, too. I'm just thinking, but maybe you would all be better off not telling him.

[Playbahnosh]

Originally posted by Grinder@Feb 4 2006, 08:32 PM
I'm just thinking, but maybe you would all be better off not telling him.

you are joking right?

You thought *I* will tell him? :blink: Not in hundred years!! I don't even want to see him at all, and definetly don't want to talk to him <_< I met him once while he was here at the dorm with Gabi. I greeted him with a smile and a "hello" but the only answer was a grunt and a shady look. <_< He is not of the nice kind...

So I did need to think about him? Why should I? If he loves Gabi why don't he show it to her? And why do you think Gabi looked out of the relationship with him 7(!) times if he loves her oh so much. Even if that is true, something IS wrong there considering the current(and past) cincumstances. Oh, and another thing, last Thursday when me and Gabi sorta came together, she told me that she and Peter have some big problems beetween them nowdays(so not a little coming-going problem). Why should I, say, "help" him to remain with Gabi? No, I done that many times, to help the girl I loved come together with someone else so they could be happy... No! I'm tired of rejections and abusement, now MY time has come and there is nothing that can stop me! :Titan:

The only thing is HOW should I do that... and that's why I need your help

EDIT@: We talked on the phone..again Now finally this thing seems to budge. And in my favour :Brain: She told me that one side of her pulls to me strongly but her other side wants to stay and don't want to lose something that she has. I told her that I can give her all that too...and much more, and she said that I'm possibly right. She said (in a dreaming voice) our nights together were unbelievable, and we are so great together. She said "why? Ákos, why? Why is this feeling in me towards you? I just can't believe it..." and I said "don't try to believe it...just feel it"... and she asked why should SHE break up with Peter, and I said someone has to do it anyway, might as well be her, and she said "maybe..."...

I don't know... she went to sleep now, but if she arrives tomorrow, that will be the moment of glory or the kingdom come. The moment of truth, one way or another this motionless thing will end there... wish me luck

[Chuck the plant]

Not that it wasn't mentioned so far, but let me ask you once more: You're going to get together with a girl that cheated on her still-boyfriend 7 times already?

I think you KNOW what seems to be a little wrong with that picture, do you?

[Abi79]

She cheated on her boyfriend 7 times?! (including this one) I thought she wanted to leave him 6 times...

I don't know... she went to sleep now, but if she arrives tomorrow, that will be the moment of glory or the kingdom come. The moment of truth, one way or another this motionless thing will end there... wish me luck

May the Force be with you k:

[Grinder]

Originally posted by Playbahnosh+Feb 4 2006, 07:45 PM--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (Playbahnosh @ Feb 4 2006, 07:45 PM)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'> <!--QuoteBegin-Grinder@Feb 4 2006, 08:32 PM
I'm just thinking, but maybe you would all be better off not telling him.

you are joking right?

You thought *I* will tell him? :blink: Not in a hundred years!! I don't even want to see him at all, and definitely don't want to talk to him.
... [/b][/quote]
No, no, no, that is not what I meant. What I meant with "you" was you and gabi. Maybe this guy doesn't know that she cheated on him 7 times, and maybe he really really loves gabi (I said that already, didn't I?). I was just saying that maybe he deserved a fair chance of their relationship working. I know this must be difficult to see for you, but I just wanted to remind you that this Peter character might have the same problem you have. She must have chosen him for a reason, right?
I did not want you to help him or anything. I just meant that you should not only think of him as "that b'st'rd who took gabi away from me", but as a normal person.

Originally posted by Playbahnosh+Feb 4 2006, 7:45--></div><table border='0' align='center' width='95%' cellpadding='3' cellspacing='1'><tr><td>QUOTE (Playbahnosh @ Feb 4 2006, 7:45)</td></tr><tr><td id='QUOTE'>there is nothing that can stop me!* [/b]

I can see that. Just be careful not to harm anybody
<!--QuoteBegin-Playbahnosh@Feb 4 2006, 7:45
The only thing is HOW should I do that...* and that's why I need your help [/quote]That's what I was trying to do. Help you. I don't mean to harm you, I don't mean that Peter deserves to be with Gabi, I'm just trying to help you to look at the situation objectively.

[Playbahnosh]

@Chuck: I know dude, but the thing is I'm out to change all that. I mean I want to keep her for sure this time and I have a feeling that I might be able to do that. Besided, who can resist to have her own star in the sky (for example) . And I have other beautiful stuff to show her k: I try everything, and if that everything is not enough I book the loss, cry, and drop dead...

@Abi: Please read before you post dude k: and she was not technicly cheating, those were "temptations" as she calls it, I don't know the details but I don't really want to anyway.

And thanks for the power

@Grinder: I know dude. It is very hard for me to look at this matter objectively. And you are right, Gabi must have chosen Peter for a reason (and reason was to try and keep her she told me), but, seemingly, he deliberatly failed. HE *HAD* his chance to try and keep Gabi, AT LEAST a half year, and he failed at that. So now it's my turn. I feel kinda sorry for him, but if he couldn't keep Gabi, he deserves another chance with another girl. I'm not angry at him or anything you see, but... gnaah, he is in the way goddamit :tai:

I still don't know if Gabi will be able to return to the dorm today, maybe she only can come tomorrow... I'm practically dying over here

[Abi79]

Originally posted by Playbahnosh@Feb 5 2006, 11:31 AM
[...]@Abi: Please read before you post dude k: [...]

What I posted was a reply to Chuck The Plant's post. (except for the "Force" part, of course)

I still don't know if Gabi will be able to return to the dorm today, maybe she only can come tomorrow... I'm practically dying over here

A girls usually wants love as much as a man (you) does, so I'm sure she'll come today. If not, she probably has something very important to do, but she'll come sooner or later. Don't lose your hope. k:

I try everything, and if that everything is not enough I book the loss, cry, and drop dead...

...and you'll be the first AB member who died of love. Ain't that a joy? :evil: :bleh:

[Playbahnosh]

What I posted was a reply to Chuck The Plant's post. (except for the "Force" part, of course)

sorry bout that dude, didn't know...

...and you'll be the first AB member who died of love. Ain't that a joy?

well, I won't consider that a joy but at least it will give you something to laugh upon... but I rather have hope in a happy ending...

[Abi79]

Originally posted by Playbahnosh@Feb 5 2006, 12:11 PM

well, I won't consider that a joy but at least it will give you something to laugh upon...

It was just a joke...but don't mind me. I'm always pessimist :whistle:

[Playbahnosh]

hhhh...so am I dude. But there is a shining star on my dark sky now, called Hope. If there is a tiny little hope that my luck will change now I won't give up. Not when it seems like the girl of my life seems to love me too. Oh Lord, please give me this blessing this once... you were so cruel to me until now, please

EDIT@: It turned out Gabi will only come tomorrow Damn, I'm about to drop the hammer :tai: