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Originally posted by Scatty@Feb 1 2006, 05:38 PM
Love takes a lot of caring and understanding, and going the way of "forget her, you'll meet others yet" is the best way to destroy love. Giving advice on how to get someone he loves back can also hardly be called as "mocking". Seeing it that way you can say then that others who posted here also mock him, risking to offend someone.
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Yes, love does take caring, but when I read your first post here I really thought you were just telling me about a teen movie (something like 100 girls or something). Sorry if you felt offended by that - I didn't want to offend you, but I really did have a feeling you're just a kid who doesn't know any better. I apologize to you.
When I posted that thing about everybody else - I wasn't saying they are all making fun of Playbahnosh, but some people were, so I was telling them not to. If something serius happens, no-one should make fun of it, or simply post something without really knowing what's it all about (there's no need to reply in every single topic).
And now back to topic...
Play, it seems like there might be a problem. You said she's older then you. She might really like you, she may have even fallen in love with you (probably did), but obviously she is worried. I asume she's about to finish her studies and get a job (probably even start a family). If she changes partners (goes with you) her plans may fall apart (or will at least be delayed). That's a really difficoult step (if not impossible) for her to take. If you push the issue she may turn against you. The best you could do is stand by and maybe she'll gather enough courage to leave her boyfriend. Then you'll see. Forcing a relationship to happen (even if two people are deeply in love) is never a good thing.