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Originally posted by Playbahnosh@Feb 27 2006, 12:00 AM
Since when does life make any sense? My wannabe girlfriend just can't choose between me and her "current" boyfriend for a month now, but she says she don't want to lose me either and want to be with me.... Bah, life is completly fcked up, don't dwell into it or you go insane, trust me k:

Dear Playbanosh;

Unless there is something seriously wrong with your wannabee girlfriend's current beau, she is demonstrating a clear inability to understand the importance and meaning of commitment. You should be concerned because, unless she changes, there is nothing to stop her from mistreating you in the exact same way that she is mistreating her current boyfriend. It might be best to cut your losses, and seek someone who is more mature.

I apologise for saying such blunt and potentially hurtful things but I worry that no one else has given you such advice. A friend of mine had the gross misfortune to marry a woman with no sense of commitment and who lacked the propriety to stop loving (read: stop having sex with) former boyfriends. No one deserves that kind of treatment and you may be inviting it.