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[Mighty Midget]

Temporarily closed until Ian or an admin wants it re-opened

EDIT: Re-opened by Ian's request.

[ianfreddie07]

New problem!!! I already had MM's permission to reopen the topic:

Now my new problem goes like this... I was asked to hold my classmate's bag. Even though I was tired, I went on. Then while walking with her bag, I dropped it, walked on to one of my close friends and just told him about "carrying your own weight". My classmate heard this and told me that I'm telling her something indirectly and called me boastful. She actually cried, which I didn't expect. She was like "you should have told me that you don't want to carry it!!! don't come with us anymore!!!". I'm so pissed at myself right now! I'm going to apologize to her tomorrow, but how? Will she even accept it? What to do, guys?

(Remember you're speaking to someone who's 13, please don't make the problem even worse, especially #Alex#)

[_r.u.s.s.]

what if you wrote a letter or sms with the same text like here (not literaly of course) and add how terrible you feel", thats why you write this letter" and stuff

[Dave]

I think the only way is to talk with her about it, try to explain your reasons.
Weird reaction...IMO she's in a bad period of her life...Ian, women are often difficult to understand
(Maybe she cried for a personal reason..)
Don't worry I'm sure things will be better soon

[Japo]

Do try to talk to her.

But if you want my opinion and judging from your version of the story, she overreacted quite a bit. And I can't know (perhaps you can) whether she did because she's extremely sensitive (even for a girl :P ), or because she likes to make you dance to her music and if you don't she won't come near you. Don't take this old man's grudged words for more than they're worth, LOL but femmes falales are already born that way you know.

Again please don't pay any attention to what I say, but girls don't go after the kind of boys that are gentlemanly and hold their burden... so they can ride the other badit guy's motorbike.

If this ain't social assistance, nothing is! LOL

In short, try to talk to her but be prepared to be annoyed. I hope you're not.

[_r.u.s.s.]

older women like cute men who get a bit nervous while talking to them so they see that they are attracted by them

[Japo]

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(_r.u.s.s. @ Sep 5 2007, 12:57 PM) [snapback]308971[/snapback]</div>

older women like cute men who get a bit nervous while talking to them so they see that they are attracted by them[/b]

... for a while, between main courses. :P

[_r.u.s.s.]

indeed

[wordscankill]

"What men know about women" is one of the shortest books ever written. It's shorter even than "What most men actually learn by opening up the bonnet of their car if it breaks down"

[Icewolf]

<div class='quotetop'>QUOTE(Captain Ben! @ Sep 5 2007, 01:42 PM) [snapback]308985[/snapback]</div>

"What men know about women" is one of the shortest books ever written.[...][/b]

LOL So true!
I often have the experience that if you don't take action in some cases that women think about what actually happened and see that they screwed up and not you.
And they come to you and say they're sorry...