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[_r.u.s.s.]

that's amazing, send us pics

[El Quia]

Originally Posted by AlumiuN

Have a good atheist wedding (I'm not sure how that works, but you'd better tell me, if I ever get married mine will probably be like that too )!

I don't know how it is where you live, but here only the "Juez de Paz" (I don't know how to translate it: Peace judge?) can marry people in what is known as "casamiento por civil" (something like civil marriage, meaning that the marriage was made by the Civil registry. Used in oposition to a "church marriage"). Only when you have been married this way, you can be married by any other ceremony you wish. Thing is, only the civil marriage has legal value here, and most of the religions here only accept to marry you after you have been married by the state.

Thing is, most people do both ceremonies: the civil and the religious one (usually catholics, being it the stronger religion here), although lately the second ceremony is celebrated more because of tradition than because of religious belief (at least where I live, one of the most metropolitan zone of my country. At other places, religious belief and church "loyalty" are stronger).

I hope I have explained it clearly. And I hope I haven't misunderstood you, meanig that all this explaination wasn't necessary, jojojo.

[El Quia]

Originally Posted by _r.u.s.s.

that's amazing, send us pics

I will think about it. But I don't feel comfortable posting photos of me on the internet. But maybe I could show you the cake!


(Sorry for the double post, I just forgot to edit the last message to add this... is there a way to delete your own messages?)

[AlumiuN]

Originally Posted by El Quia

I don't know how it is where you live, but here only the "Juez de Paz" (I don't know how to translate it: Peace judge?) can marry people in what is known as "casamiento por civil" (something like civil marriage, meaning that the marriage was made by the Civil registry. Used in oposition to a "church marriage"). Only when you have been married this way, you can be married by any other ceremony you wish. Thing is, only the civil marriage has legal value here, and most of the religions here only accept to marry you after you have been married by the state.

Thing is, most people do both ceremonies: the civil and the religious one (usually catholics, being it the stronger religion here), although lately the second ceremony is celebrated more because of tradition than because of religious belief (at least where I live, one of the most metropolitan zone of my country. At other places, religious belief and church "loyalty" are stronger).

I hope I have explained it clearly. And I hope I haven't misunderstood you, meanig that all this explaination wasn't necessary, jojojo.

Ah. Here, the only official one IIRC is the religious one. There is a 'civil union', but that's reserved almost exclusively for lesbians.

[angry axe]

pics or it didnt happen .......just kidding congrats and good luck

[Fubb]

cakecakecakecakecakecakecakecake

[El Quia]

Originally Posted by AlumiuN

Ah. Here, the only official one IIRC is the religious one. There is a 'civil union', but that's reserved almost exclusively for lesbians.

Well, at least in my city we have the civil union, also, but it has nothing to do with the "civil marriage". The civil marriage is a proper marriage and AFAIK the only one recognized by the state. Priests and such have no legal power to marry people.

Originally Posted by angry axe

pics or it didnt happen .......just kidding congrats and good luck

I'll see if I upload some. As I said before, I don't feel confortable posting photos on the internet. But I will see what I do. Tonight, also, I will receive the photos that my friends take on Saturday, when we had our bachelor party. Fortunately, our friends had pity of us, and refrained from the worst they could do.

Originally Posted by Fubb

cakecakecakecakecakecakecakecake

The cake is a lie. I hope to be wrong!
I will post some cake photos. But I will not be hold responsible for you trying to eat your monitor!

[angry axe]

lol i was just kidding :tongue: you don't gotta post photos,

[U-Boat Commander David]

Congratulations and best Wishes

[Simoneer]

And I have been quoted!

Congratulations again, then, now when it is confirmed and all! Hope you'll have a great day.