Umm... I am not arguing with you, actually, and if it sounds like I do, I am sorry.
I can perfectly understand when game simply "not clicks". I am, personally, have bad time playing Age of Empires, for example, and Civilization 4 was more like disappointment for me after previous 3 parts. But I know that it's my only personal problems, so I have no troubles with it.
In your case your initial reply sounded for me like you don't like some aspects of game because you simply cannot use it properly. So I tried to argue. But when I realized that you, actually, can be more knowledgeable about this game than me - well, what can I say? It's a clear case of "wrong game", so I can only accept your choice.