Great to have you back, Sal.
Tell your hubby that a good deal of icecream and footrubs is required in this case. (He sounds like my Dad. Who seems to yell the wings across the tryline, and shout the referee into submission -- I guess he'd be throwing small citrus fruit irl, which is a time-honoured SA tradition.
) So sorry to hear about your friend, Halindir. I lost my friend Carlin in a traffic accident twelve years ago. She was seventeen. She was so pretty and full of life, I felt her loss deeply. She had so many plans for her future, gone in an instant... Her mother was killed too. She left a father and a younger sister. I hope the driver of that massive truck was prosecuted...